Beloved Grandma

Grandma left us on 18th nov 

i was working on 17th nov , 7plus pm received a text

from WS my 3rd bro, that grandma fainted 

mum is with her on the way to hospital

 called mum to ask which hospital they went

called my boss to inform him that i have to go off right away

met up with WS at novena station and hurry off to 

A&E at Tan Tock Seng Hospital

 my mum , 2nd bro & sis-in-law were there already

we waited at the waiting room for update 

around 8 plus we went to see the doctor ,

 he showed us the scan of grandma's head 

from above eyebrow, he explained that there are 
blood in her brain and is 60% brain damaged

 

he told us to prepare for worst 

as grandma can't take operation 

 she will become vegetative patient even

she able to survive, the thought of her 

won't be able to talk , no more reaction

break my heart and we cried

 called all the relatives to come down right away,

 WS & me went back to mrt station to wait for dad. 

while waiting there, cousin JS along with his gf 

reached and next my eldest bro WM soon after dad too

we quickly walked back and met up with the rest

but was told to wait as they are transferring grandma

 to ward which it took about 2 hour to do so .. 

it was already near 11pm at that time   

when we finally able to see grandma 

she was in coma, she was struggling to breathe hard

all her sons and daughter were already by her side 

except for my 3rd uncle the only one still not there 

at around 2 plus am some uncle already went back

dad, Wm & Wj were asked to go home too 

as they're working in morning, 3rd uncle reached

shortly after with some of his friend .. 

after 3rd uncle talked to grandma , her heartbeat start

going lower and lower, her blood pressure

 went higher and higher. uncle's friend say 

 ( he can see those "thing" )

grandma cannot make it already and 

they were asking her to go peacefully i quickly texted Wj

to update him and he rushed back to hospital again

after awhile 3rd uncle went off with his friend

WJ reached and we just stay at grandma side 

she was breathing hard and slowly

 she not breathing anymore but

 her heartbeat was still beating for awhile 

and soon she totally gone at 3plus am

after everything done , only left me, 

WS , Mum, Auntie, 4th Uncle & his wife 

This is my first time going in mortuary

and it felt so terrible to see grandma there

after that we went home had a quick shower

 went out for breakfast and bought some new clothing 

for grandma to wear for her wake

( to be continue )